How to Handle a Sarcastic Employee
February 21st, 2012As a New England Human Resources firm, we know there’s always one in the group. The person who can’t resist making snarky comments, even in serious situations. They jokingly put people down, but insist they’re just kidding around. After all, they’re not being mean, right? It’s all in good fun.
Not really. Sarcasm is simply a way to cover up a person’s contempt for another and it comes from a variety of sources, including:
- Stifled anger. Many times, sarcasm can be a passive aggressive way for someone to assert control over a situation. They don’t want to discuss their real feelings and so they disguise them with sarcasm.
- Feeling insecure. Some people use sarcasm in order to avoid confrontation. They’re afraid to ask for what they really want, so they veil their request with sarcasm.
- Lack of social sophistication. In addition, people employ sarcasm when they’re uncertain how to carry on a conversation in an uncomfortable situation. They are hoping to come off as playful, but instead come off as annoying.
So when you have a sarcastic employee, how can you handle their subtle attacks? Here are some tips:
Address it head on.
The next time the employee makes a snide remark, call them out on it immediately – even if it’s publicly. Not only will this hopefully jolt the person into better behavior, but it also demonstrates to your employees that you find the behavior unacceptable.
Take their comment at face value.
When your sarcastic employee makes a remark, take what they say as a genuine comment. For instance, when they roll their eyes and say sarcastically that something is a “great idea,” then respond that you agree…it is a great idea. In the process, you’ll burst their bubble and hopefully they’ll get the hint.
Meet with the employee.
Have a private conversation with your employee and ask them about their sarcasm. Inform them that you feel it’s disruptive in the workplace and to tone it down. Remain respectful and reasonable so you don’t get dragged down into their negativity.
If all your efforts are to no avail, then perhaps it’s time to replace the sarcastic employee with someone who’s more interested in being a team player. If that’s the case, let us know. As a New England Human Resources firm, we can give you access to professionals with the skills needed to get the job done, and personalities that fit your corporate culture. Learn more now.
